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The skill of hearing things that would be easy to miss in your relationship

What’s He Not Telling You? Learn to Hear What Isn’t Being Said in Your Relations Peter Drucker, the well-known business guru, once said, “The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn’t being said.” In other words, you have to know how to read between the lines. That’s true in any situation where two people interact, and it’s especially true in romantic relationships. Why? Because so much of communication is what the other person  isn’t  saying. If you only pay attention to what the man in your life says, you’re missing a lot of what he’s communicating with you! With practice, you can hone the skill of reading his unspoken thoughts. But how do you practice? By getting feedback. When you’re in a conversation with the man in your life, notice how he says it. How is he sitting? Is his posture relaxed or tense? What about his tone of voice? What is his facial expression? And don’t stop there. That was the easy stuff you probably already notice without ev