If you met Kyla at a social event, you might see her as standoffish. It takes a lot before she lets down her guard or starts to smile. What you wouldn’t know is that this isn’t really who she is. Around her friends, Kyla is a different person. Silly, warm and caring. But she won’t let just anyone in. She’s been burned too many times. She decided, long ago, that her problem was that she was too open. She’d allow a guy to see how much she liked him… and then he’d treat her like she was nothing. She’d fall for a guy, have a wonderful few months with him… and then he’d break it off. Once she healed her broken heart and learned to live without him… he’d pop back into her life acting like nothing ever happened. If life taught her anything, it was this: The key to attracting men is showing how little you actually care. Was she right? The “Like” Switch Kyla’s experience resonates with the stories I’ve heard from so many other women. They tell me it’s like night and day. When a guy knows that y