Article from  Amy Waterman[1] "Are you tired of ending up in relationships where you do all the work? Tell me if this is familiar: Both of you put in a long day’s work, but when  you  come home, you start in on the 1001 chores that need doing… While he puts his feet up or goes off to the gym and expects the magic housecleaning fairy to clean his clothes and make dinner. Back in the days when families were divided into a breadwinner and a homemaker, that division of labor made sense. It doesn’t anymore. A majority of couples (about two-thirds) both work outside the home. Yet dating advice hasn’t been updated to reflect this new reality. Women are still being taught to woo a man by making him special meals and prioritizing his needs and letting him lead. Whereas, in fact, women today need a partner who can  pull his own weight ,  share the decision-making , and  acknowledge and respect her needs. To make matters worse, the way most women approach love basically GUARANTEES that they’

Article from  dating coach  James Bauer [1] I’m going to share a rather big secret. It’s one of those secrets men aren’t going to tell you. It’s TOO personal. It gets at the core of what makes us vulnerable. This secret also gets at the reason why so many men abandon otherwise good relationships . It triggers men deep down in their heart and in their gut. They may not even be able to express it… But every guy knows this truth in his bones. Are you ready for it? It’s deceptively simple: Guys don’t want to be the bad guy. Or put another way: NO guy wants to be the “bad guy.” Why Guys Feel Bad It’s such an easy pattern to slip into. You’re the person who does most of the work in relationships. You think about his needs all the time. You sacrifice to put him first. But what does he do? He’s selfish. He’s thoughtless. He doesn’t try. Conclusion? You’re the good person in the relationship, and he’s the bad one. This tendency is universal. Everyone tends to see themselves as a good person jus