“It’s not you. It’s me.” “I’m worried I’m going to hurt you.” “You deserve someone better than me.” “I can’t give you what you need.” If you’ve been on the receiving end of those excuses, you know just how frustrating they are. Doesn’t he get it? You WANT to be with him. You know he’s not perfect. You know he can’t give you the world. And you don’t care! Love is accepting people for who they are. You can’t help but think there’s something you can say to him… Some way to make him understand… You’ve got a really good thing going here. Can’t he see that? When clients come to me, heartbroken over a man who leaves them as often as he stays, I always wish I could fix it for them. The first thing I tell them is the good news. The good news is that he’s clearly getting pleasure out of spending time with you. If he wasn’t getting any pleasure, he wouldn’t be coming back. So he does experience the good bits of your relationship. There’s only one problem: He’s not willing to stick around for the