You thought you made it clear. You told him you wanted a relationship. And he agreed! He said he wanted a relationship, too. You believed him. But you’ve been seeing him for a while now, and you’re still not sure where this is going. He compliments you but never says how he feels about you. He says he wants to take it day by day, but you want to make plans for the future. He is eager to jump into bed, but never around when you just want to hang out. Did you get your wires crossed somewhere? Or is it actually taking him this long to decide whether he wants a relationship with you? Casual Dating Is Just So  Easy Most people take the path of least resistance. If everything is going well, why change it? Why risk having a difficult conversation? If your guy seems happy but hasn’t brought up the topic of a relationship yet, it may have nothing to do with whether he likes  you . He may just like  the way things are. If you want a relationship, you can’t let casual dating become the status quo