This could be the beginning of something wonderful. You really care about him. You want to be part of his life. But a few things he’s said bother you. He’s got some complicated issues in his life… And he doesn’t want you to become involved. You have a few complicated issues in your own life… And you’re not sure how much he wants to know about them. Should you sit down with him and have a serious talk? Or should you let it go and have faith it will all work out in the end? Surely, if you love each other enough, you’ll be able to make it work no matter what… right? No one wants to look too closely at potential problems when they’re falling for someone. They don’t want to derail the relationship before it’s even begun. But some couples are trying a different tactic. They’re laying their differences out on the table from the beginning. And I’ve got 5 questions you can use to start that conversation in a safe and playful way. Perfection Isn’t Persuasive When you meet someone new, you don’