Carla found the romantic hero of her dreams. He was dark and brooding. He would show up unexpectedly and sweep her away on a surprise date, not telling her where they were going until they got there. Zachary had a quick temper, which Carla didn’t like, but he was also quick to defend her. One time, they were out dancing when a man bumped into Carla and said something rude. Zachary got in the man’s face and would have started something if Carla hadn’t pulled him away. Carla knew she was good for Zachary. She kept him on an even keel. She looked after him. Was their relationship made in heaven? Long-Term vs. Short-Term Potential The traits that appeal to us when dating don’t necessarily guarantee happily-ever-after. We feel intensely attracted to dates who are exciting and spontaneous. That emotional intensity pushes us to fall fast. But long-term relationships don’t run on emotional intensity. Passionate flames cool down into companionship and commitment. It matter...

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Relationships get boring. It’s inevitable. You’re with the same person. You do the same things. And that’s exactly what you wanted when you got together. Security. Stability. No nasty surprises. But our craving for constancy comes at a very big price: We give up novelty. We get just one person. One relationship . No refunds or exchanges. Imagine having to give up every outfit in your wardrobe but one. You can pick your favorite outfit, but you have to wear it every day. How do you think you’ll feel in a week? Will you still love it as much as you did when you chose it? Human beings crave novelty just as much as they crave constancy. We want things to be the same but different. We want what we’ve always had, but we also want what we’ve never tried. The pleasure of novelty is obvious in the beginning of a relationship when everything is new and wonderful. For many couples, it will never be that exciting again. Even their tenth wedding anniversary can’t compare to th...

Caitlyn thought of herself as gentle and loving. She made others feel good. She tried to keep the peace. But her boyfriend Hudson was driving her crazy. It started a few months after they moved in together. Until then, she thought she and Hudson saw eye-to-eye on everything. She’d never been so in tune with anyone. Then she started noticing things. Just little things at first. Insensitive comments that Hudson made. Thoughtless things he did. Then she started noticing the things he  wasn’t  doing anymore. Like kissing her when he left to go out. Or asking her if she wanted coffee when he made himself a cup. It was as if he wasn’t even trying anymore… Like she was just someone he lived with…. Not someone he treasured. >> Find out here why men pull away When Caitlyn came to me, she was frantic. She just knew this relationship was heading the same direction as all her past relationships. Now that Hudson “had” her, he’d stopped valuing her. “I don...

Two questions: 1. How are you feeling right now? 2.If you’re in a relationship, do you think you’ll be happy with your boyfriend in a year’s time? Most of us would assume these questions have nothing to do with one another. After all, how you feel at this very moment is irrelevant to how you think you’ll feel about your boyfriend in a year. Right? Wrong. A classic study in the  Journal of Personality and Social Psychology [1]   found that people report greater satisfaction with their lives when the weather is nice or when they’ve been thinking about something happy. As everyone on vacation knows, life looks better when it’s sunny and hot. How we feel right now also affects how we think we’ll feel about the future. If someone interviewed you right after you’d had a particularly nasty argument with your boyfriend, you’d probably express serious doubts about your long-term compatibility. Spend the rest of your life with this monkey? Not likely. But if som...

Maybe you’re in a long-distance relationship. Or one of you travels frequently. Perhaps you just can’t get together as much as you’d like. Even if big chunks of your relationship occur in different buildings, cities, or time zones, it’s still possible to forge a physical connection. How? Relationships can have their fair share of conflicts and issues in any normal situation. Let's face it, even the so called healthy relationships have had their fair share of ups and down. And with long distance relationships, the chances that you may sometime fall out with your significant other cannot be ruled out. Without mincing words, distance can cause a huge gulf between two inseparable love birds. Little wonder the cliche  "out of sight is out of mind" Of course, there are pros and cons attached to long distance relationships. First of all, a long distance relationship can actually help the relationship between you and your man grow stronger each day, as you constant...