Why is he doing this? He’s still calling and texting you, even though he’s the one who broke up with you. He said he didn’t want a relationship. So why is he acting as if you’re still in one? Could it be that he’s missing you? Does he regret breaking up with you? Does he want you back? In just a moment, I’ll share the 10 reasons why your ex keeps texting you after the breakup… But first I want you to think about how his texting is affecting YOU. Are you finding it hard to forget about him and move on? Does each text from him create a spark of hope that you might get back together again? Does it almost feel like you’re still in a relationship ? When an ex stays in contact with you after a breakup, it limits your sense of closure. You’re left in this ambiguous space where you’re not sure how things stand. He said he didn’t want a relationship, but his behavior says otherwise. Which do you believe: what he said or what he’s doing? It’s confusing. You don’t know whether to feel happy he st...

Kylie didn’t understand what went wrong. It was all going so well. Chase was funny and cute and warm and shy, and she loved spending time with him. She did all of her “good girlfriend” tricks. She surprised him with special food. She texted him every morning so he’d wake up thinking of her.  She made sure that each and every weekend they spent together was spectacular. But the longer they were together, the more withdrawn Chase became. He stopped responding to every one of her texts. He didn’t always want to make weekend plans. He seemed irritated sometimes when she popped by his apartment to surprise him. Still, it came out of the blue when Chase showed up one day saying he needed to talk. Kylie felt frightened by the grim look on his face. He didn’t meet her eyes. He quickly mumbled that he couldn’t be what she wanted. He liked being with her and all, but she wanted him to be someone he wasn’t. He just couldn’t do this anymore. And then he walked away. Kylie stood frozen to the s...

Not to boast, but you’re a pretty awesome person. You look after yourself. You’re kind. You’re positive. You make other people feel good. So why are you still single? Why don’t guys even notice you? The Changing World of Dating My older clients tell me dating was easier back in the day. All a gal had to do was go out and sit at a table with her friends, and men would come up and talk to her. Nowadays, if you go out with your friends, the only people you talk to end up being the same people you came with. It’s not like that everywhere, of course. But I hear this complaint so often by the women that James[1] coach. They’re frustrated that there’s no way to meet men aside from dating apps. The world  has  changed. There are more single people now than ever. 3 in 10 American adults are single (neither married nor dating anyone currently), and about half of them are looking to date. [2] In theory, we should have more options than ever before. But it doesn’t  feel  that wa...

Do you desperately want to know how to get your ex boyfriend to want you back without pushing him away forever? If you feel it is impossible to get your ex boyfriend back, there's hope that almost every break up can be reversed with the right battle plan in place. In order to get your ex boyfriend to want you back you must avoid using guilt and manipulation tactics no matter how desperate the situation maybe.  Nothing will push your ex boyfriend away faster than dirty tricks used to manipulate him.  With that said I want you to know you can push a few buttons to make your ex boyfriend think twice about your break up. In order to learn how to get your ex boyfriend to want you back you need to accept that your approach is simply not working.  If you are like most trying to get their ex boyfriend to take them back, you are probably calling, messaging and emailing your ex boyfriend trying to get him to just "hear you out". I know being ignored hurts but you need to stop immed...

Cheating boyfriend test is one of the ways to know that your boyfriend is cheating on you.  However, the test alone cannot identify if your boyfriend is really unfaithful. His attributes, attitudes and behaviors can also be a big factor to look at.  A combination of these two will help you successfully analyze what is going on with him and to your relationship as a whole. When you enter into a relationship, you both shared your whole self with him; you share your feelings, temperaments and personalities. He's been like a best friend and boyfriend at the same time. It's as if your whole world revolves only with him and you know every inch of information about him. Your boyfriend on the other hand, feels the same as you do. But you cannot avoid keeping secrets in him, much as he does to you.  The reason behind it is that there are just things in life that needs to be preserved. The question still remains, how much do you know your boyfriend? Is he honest to you all the way...

An article from Relationship Coach James Bauer[1] "I’ve heard this story so many times. A guy really likes a girl, so he tries to come up with reasons to talk to her. He starts showing up in the same places she frequents. He strikes up little conversations with her. He builds up the courage to ask her out. Then, out of the blue, she’s curt with him. Really, really rude. He’s blindsided. He doesn’t get it.  But she’s been so friendly! He slinks away. His heart just got a little bit harder. What happened? As I explain to men, often what happened was that she had been giving him signals that she wasn’t interested since the start. He didn’t pick up on those signals. Finally, she felt she had no choice other than to be completely clear. Had he read her signals clearly from the beginning, she wouldn’t have rejected him so soundly. They both could have emerged from the situation with heads high. Misreading one another’s signals is a common issue in the early stages of dating. No one has ...