An Article from Amy Waterman[1] There’s so much to remember: How to text him How to talk to him How to flirt with him How to make him happy How to make him choose you How to avoid scaring him off We spend SO much time and energy trying to hack the rules of attraction, just to get a decent relationship. It shouldn’t be this hard! Because I don’t see ANYONE who isn’t lovable. I don’t see anyone who needs to fundamentally change who they are in order to be worthy of a dating gold star.  But what I do see is how many of us have this  low-level anxiety that we’re not good enough . We’re not certain we’re love material. We’re not confident we can do this on our own. So we look for tricks we can use, or strategies to try. We look for ways to build ourselves up, to be more appealing. We try to do all the things—the texts, the flirting, the seduction—hoping we’ll hit on the magic combo that unlocks a man’s heart. We’re so focused on what we need to DO that we forget wh...

Which dating strategy appeals most to you? Get lots of male attention by learning exactly what to do to make men notice you and want you. Find your future husband by leading with your most authentic, vulnerable self. Every woman needs a different strategy at different times in her life. When she’s just starting out dating, she’s more interested in finding out what makes men tick and what men in general prefer. As she gets older, she’s less interested in attracting a lot of men and more interested in attracting that one RIGHT man. It turns out that you need different strategies depending on your dating goals. So if the strategy you’re using isn’t working for you, try something different. Here are your options. Dating Strategy #1: The Cool Girl Every Man Wants If what you’re looking for is confidence and a rock-solid belief in your own attractiveness, then this is a good strategy for you. It feels great when you’re able to turn heads and get asked out any time you want. The way this stra...

Amy Waterman 's [1] 3 Habits That Attract Love Into Your Life "If there’s one problem I’d say every single woman in the world has—no matter where she lives or how old she is—it’s trying to find a love worth keeping. These days it feels like every guy just wants to hook up. It feels like no one is thinking beyond tomorrow or even wants to do the work it takes to build a life together. Yet demographic research has found that 6 in 10 men who’ve never been married  do  actually want to get married someday… And over a third of Americans believe that having a successful marriage is one of the most important things in life. [2] So where are those men, and why aren’t we finding them? Maybe it’s because we’re looking in the wrong direction! When you practice these 3 habits that attract love, you’ll find yourself attracting a whole different class of men. Men who want to please you. Men who want to support you. Men who know how to love you. And THOSE are the kind of ...

An article from James Bauer[1] "Do you worry much? One of the things I see a lot in my coaching practice is worry about relationship decisions and relationship mistakes from the past. Many of the women I talk to worry they’ve made the wrong choices. Stayed in the wrong relationship too long. Let go of the wrong guy. Put off looking for Mr. Right until it was too late. They’re worried they’re going to pay a steep price for what they’ve done. They don’t know if they’ll ever get the love they desire, and it’s all because of what happened in the past. If only they could go back and do it all over again! No doubt about it, making mistakes hurts. But if that’s all you focus on—the pain of past mistakes—your beliefs become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Life becomes harder. Your past sabotages you at every turn. Wouldn’t it be nice if you could wave a magic wand and make all your past mistakes go away? You don’t need a magic wand. You have all the power you need , right inside your own ...

Do you feel stuck? Like every day is Groundhog Day? Are you waiting for life to change, but you don’t know how to make it change? Change starts with releasing what no longer serves you. So many of us don’t even realize how much we are burdened and dragged down by expectations that we were never given a choice about. Make space in your life for the good that’s coming to you by getting rid of these 3 habits that are holding you back and draining you dry. Following are from Amy Waterman's [1] advise: Habit #1. Accommodating Others The first habit I challenge you to release is the habit of accommodating others. We are utterly  terrified  of saying or doing the wrong thing. We don’t want to scare a guy off. We don’t want to be a bother or make a fuss. And so we hide everything. We hide it when we’re upset. We hide it when someone does something that hurts us. We even hide it when someone makes us uncomfortable. We tell ourselves that it was nothing. It will only hurt thei...