If you're interested in one powerful secret to irresistible youthfulness that men can't ignore (no matter what your actual age is)... Then you might want to see this recent "youthful beauty" discovery from celebrity beauty expert Leslie Munsell. (Hint - It has NOTHING to do with makeup.) ==> The one thing all men notice without fail...   (sponsored) We all know that makeup can do wonders. Especially as we get older.; But what about when the make up comes off? We also want to look and FEEL young and gorgeous when the makeup comes off don't we? Many women believe that natural, beautiful skin is something they will never get back... But that's simply not true. In fact, leading dermatological science has recently discovered; ONE simple factor ;that greatly impacts visual signs of aging... It's the root cause of why women look older than they should. Most women have never heard of this, including myself until recently... But this is going to ch...

Trust is such a BIG word. What does it really mean? How do we gain trust? What happens when we lose it? Dr. John Gottman, who’s famous for his work with couples, talks about trust being built in the smallest of moments.  He gives an example that beautifully portrays this. One night he was in bed reading a very suspenseful novel. He was close to the end, where he’d finally get to find out “who done it.” He was savoring the moment and thought he would just go to the bathroom and then jump back into bed to finish the book. His wife was brushing her hair. He noticed she looked sad. The first thought that came to his mind was: “Just keep walking, just keep walking.” Dr. Gottman calls these moments  sliding door moments.  Walk through one door, and you turn towards your partner. Walk through the other door (pretending everything is fine), and you end up turning away. Dr. Gottman made the hard choice. He took the brush out of his wife’s hand and asked her, “What’s th...

If you don’t meet your own emotional needs early on in a relationship, you’ll feel it later. Plus, it has the potential to really mess with your connection with your guy. To illustrate what I’m talking about, think about the last time you were something. I’m not talking about wanting something. I’m talking about CRAVING something. Feeling a level of desire that verges on obsession. For example, a lot of people crave sweets. And the results of a recent study suggest that sweetness in the mouth triggers a “neurological reward” as powerful as cocaine.” How do you defeat a craving for sweets? One way is to eat a protein-rich breakfast. New research shows that a solid breakfast with plenty of protein “may lower food cravings later in the day.” [2] Weird as it may sound,  meeting a legitimate need early on can eliminate an empty feeling later. The very same process plays out in relationships, too. A great example is the classic case of the woman who lacks confi...

There’s not a woman alive it hasn’t happened to. You think it’s going so well— Until he pulls back. He stops calling. He doesn’t reply to your texts. You have no idea where his attention has gone. If you’re lucky, he shows up one day, acting as if nothing happened. When questioned, he just shrugs. “I’ve been busy.” Busy? So busy he couldn’t call you? So busy he couldn’t answer your texts? Of course he must be lying. Maybe there’s someone else. Maybe he’s having doubts. Whatever it is, you won’t rest until you get to the bottom of it. And that’s the beginning of the end. He feels like you don’t trust him, or accuses you of suffocating him, while all you want is a guy who keeps in touch and lets you know what’s going on. That’s reasonable, isn’t it? There are a lot of reasons this dynamic can occur, but one of the most interesting comes from  attachment theory. Understand it, and you’ll see why a man’s distance may just be due to his attachment style. Attachment ...

Something must be wrong. I mean, your friends are in relationships right now. Some are married, some have kids, some broke up but found someone new. And you watch them… These couples who have loved each other for so long that you can’t think of one without the other. Bob-and-Janet. Hailey-and-Quinn. You watch them talking, dancing, laughing. You see how they take each other for granted. They’re always together, always a team. And you’re standing there by yourself, or maybe with a girlfriend, and you can feel that empty space around you. You’re not connected to anyone. You could leave, and no one would notice. But you don’t want to get into your cold dark car, and drive to your cold dark house, and face another night talking to yourself because there’s no one else to talk to. You can’t help but wonder: What do they have that you don’t? Why doesn’t anyone love YOU like that? Don’t Believe These Reasons If you search for “3 reasons why I’m still single” on Google, yo...

There’s this guy. He’s so exciting to be with. You always have the best time together. Even though you’re normally able to relax and be yourself around men, something about this guy makes you want to impress him. And because you get the feeling he isn’t impressed by many women, you want to be the one who lingers in his mind like a fragrance  he can’t forget . So you end up doing things you wouldn’t ordinarily do. Trying to be more flirtatious or sassy or aloof than you really are. Sometimes he responds with great pleasure and enthusiasm. Other times, it’s as if he doesn’t even register. Every so often—not often enough for you to worry about it, but often enough to notice—you catch a slight hint of annoyance. As if he’d be enjoying himself more if you were someone else … if you weren’t YOU. It catches you off guard. You think he likes you, but does he? Is he just enjoying your company because he enjoys the company of women and you’re a woman? Or does he see what’s spe...

You’re chatting with a gorgeous guy on Tinder. Not only is he super-hot, but he’s let you know in no uncertain terms how attractive he finds you. Without intending it, your conversation has gotten a bit dirty. Sexual innuendos, double entendres, and suggestions that would normally have you blushing to the tips of your ears. Then he sends you this message: “I’m located fairly close to you. Think you’d want to come over and have some fun? ;-)” Here’s my question to you: What factors would influence your reply? How attractive he is? How long you’ve known him? Your moral code? Whether a hookup would affect your chances of having a relationship with him? It turns out that there’s another factor involved. A factor that NO ONE except for a handful of researchers at Kwantlen Polytechnic University’s Observation and Research in Sexuality and Gender Matters Lab considered.  (That was a mouthful).   How Technology is Changing Dating Online dating apps are chang...