The 3 Patterns That Unlock His Passion and Romantic Desire

With the right triggers, both men and women are designed to fall in love. We are literally hardwired to fall in love. We are not meant to be alone.

How can you amplify the natural triggers that cause romantic attraction?

These triggers could cause a couple to leap forward to deeper levels of

intimacy and commitment. Sparking a new level of intimacy that could

only be called "true love." A selfless way of loving that was absolutely

beautiful.

The Strangest Thing Men Desire

It's okay if you want an amazing relationship with a man. It's okay if you

refuse to settle for a lukewarm relationship.But if you're going to go all out, and really build a beautiful relationship, you need to share that dream with the man you invite into your life.

And to do a good job of inviting him, you have to understand what's enticing about a relationship from a man's perspective.

In fact, you'll want to interact with him in a way that feels almost like a proposal. And here's what you're proposing:

"Let's reject cynicism. Embrace what's beautiful. And create something magnificent."

But what holds those qualities for a man? What seems "magnificent" to a man?

He doesn't see a relationship the same way you do. So it's important to know how men see relationships differently. That way you can frame your invitation in a way that gets results. You can frame your invitation in a way that connects with his natural drive to create something beautiful with you.

You'll whet his appetite. You'll trigger his desire to go after a deeper romantic connection with you.

Sounds good, right? 

So, what is the beauty a man sees in a committed relationship? Well, it might sound a bit odd to you at first, but here it is:

A romantic relationship satisfies a man's craving for companionship to the extent that it fits with his identity...the way he wants to see himself.

Understanding this one statement will give you tremendous power in your relationships with men.

Generally speaking, we seek out relationships because of the other person's qualities. We love someone for who they are. But we also seek out relationships because of the way other people make us feel about ourselves.

When I'm attracted to you, it means I want more of you in my life. But attraction also means I enjoy being me when I am in your presence.

I don't know if you have noticed this, but you change depending on who you are spending time with.

Some people draw out one facet of your personality while other people draw out a different facet of your personality. Like a diamond with many facets, the light you reflect back at others changes depending on your surroundings.

"Some people are so much sunshine per square inch." Walt Whitman

This quote captures so much truth. I personally like myself better when I am in the company of people who have that special "sunshine" quality.

The sunshine quality is very different than Stephanie's silly quality. You can be reserved in your demeanor yet beaming with sunshine as someone approaches you to strike up a conversation.

It's not that I like a sunny kind of person more than I like a sad person. I love them both; but I like myself better when I spend time with a woman who has that special sort of "sunshine" quality.

Here's the number-one reason why I think you should consider how a potential partner brings out various facets of your own personality. My reasoning is reflected in the quote below.

"Live life as a monument to your soul." ~ Ayn Rand

I want my soul to shine as I live my life. Therefore, I want to choose a partner who will help my soul to genuinely shine.

Does this make sense to you? Do you only look at the qualities and characteristics of a potential partner? Or do you consider how they magnify or dull the radiance of your own best qualities?

Relationship Success Is Predictable

Being successful in relationships (in anything, really) is simple: just make the right decision at every turn.

Some people just seem to have a knack for getting what they want out of life. But it's not just luck. These people have learned to recognize patterns. And when you can see patterns unfolding around you, it's almost as if you've been given the ability to predict the future.

The ability to spot emerging patterns in your relationship may be the most critical skill of all.

It's not experience. It's not memory. It's not intelligence.

It's pattern recognition. Because it allows you to create your own luck. But here's the really interesting thing. You can deliberately improve your pattern recognition to get much better results in your relationships. And perhaps the easiest way to do so is to study the patterns other people have already discovered. It works better and faster than trial and error.

Pattern recognition can be learned. It's a skill you can keep getting better at for the rest of your life. A great place to start is by learning to spot the patterns other people have already identified.

This stretches your mind in a good way. It causes your mind to start recognizing other patterns that are more subtle and unique to your relationship.

Let's take a look at three relationship patterns. Think of these patterns as male attraction triggers.

The 3 Patterns That Unlock His Passion and Romantic Desire

#1.The Happiness Pattern

People are happiest when making progress. And it doesn't matter how tiny or incremental your progress is. As long as you feel like you're making progress, your brain is designed to release feelings of happiness. It's like a built-in reward system designed to keep you interested when something seems to be working.

And the funny thing is, progress is more important than goal attainment. In other words, people are happier when they are making progress toward a goal than they are after having achieved the goal.

Yes, there's always a little feeling of celebration after you reach a goal. And that glow of positivity can stick with you for a few hours or a few days, depending on how important the milestone. 

But in the end, that positive feeling fades. Because you get used to your new circumstance.

But happy feelings will return as soon as you set a new goal and start making progress again.

Have you noticed this pattern in your own moods? Many people don't notice it. But numerous psychological studies have proven this to be a very reliable pattern for predicting human happiness.

If you want to be happy, set a goal, and make it a very small goal. Go for incremental progress. 

Now consider this. Society and genetics have wired men to pursue achievement as a way of gaining approval. And that partly explains why a man only feels happy if he's making incremental progress toward a goal. This is why many women have successfully used the "playing hard to get" strategy. They entice a man with the hunt, tapping into his instinctual

drive to pursue something just out of reach.

But how does it all end? What happens once he finally captures your love and affection? Sadly, the intensity of the relationship often fades.

#2. Man on a Mission

If a guy has feelings for you, he's going to want to make you happy. But there's a problem with that. The goal is too vague. And he's not exactly sure how to accomplish it.Plus, guys aren't that good at predicting what will actually make you happy.

Because their pattern recognition mostly tells them what makes a guy happy. They don't have very sophisticated models when it comes to the opposite gender.

As a result, men often feel frustrated in romantic relationships. Sometimes they get grumpy with you as if it's your fault they can't make you happy. He's frustrated because he's not getting the little jolts of happiness that come from making progress.

This is a pattern of the human mind. A psychological effect called "compassion collapse."

And here's why it's important. This phenomenon is much stronger for men. Because men are naturally less empathetic than women to start with.

Here's the pattern I want you to recognize...

A man will drift toward not caring unless you trigger his empathy. And you can trigger his empathy by giving him ways to please you that are specific, concrete, and easy to picture in his mind.

Doing so triggers feelings of happiness, because now it feels like he's making progress. He'll feel excited about the relationship he's building with you. He will feel more emotionally invested.

The truth is, men enjoy being on a mission, no matter how small. So you don't need to think up some elaborate plot to activate his mission-focused energy. A problem can be very insignificant, but still trigger his mission-focused instincts. 

The Attraction Trip-Wire That Awakens a Man's Deepest Longing for Love Trip Wire: "A hidden trigger that sets off one or more explosive events."

Deep within the heart of every man is an intense longing to be someone's hero.

This longing has ancient origins. You see, the cause of this longing is written into the very fabric of his DNA. And there it lies, dormant... until one day, the right trigger unleashes its power.

I'd like to show you how to become that trigger, and how to awaken the full force of your man's bonding instinct.

#3.The Power Of Story 

But first, a story. It's the story of human connection. Before we can care deeply about someone, we must know something about their life story. Because stories evoke empathy. 

Stories allow us to picture ourselves in someone else's shoes. Stories form the foundation of all human connection. They create the sensation of one shared life experience.

To trigger a man's deepest feelings of attraction, you need to become a special part of his story. You do that by revealing your needs and allowing him to help you meet them. Why? 

Because it triggers his hero instinct. Here's the formula for triggering a man's hero instinct:

Story + Need = Activated Hero Instinct.

A man's hero instinct compels him to seek a relationship that lets him take on the role of a provider. That's why guys fall for women who know how to trigger this attraction tripwire.

It sets off a series of reactions in his emotional world. It makes him happy in a way that's hard for women to understand. Because they do not share his deeply rooted instinct to become someone's hero.

Many women are vaguely aware of a man's desire to see himself as a provider. They understand, for example, why he may become depressed and pull away from others during a period of unemployment.

But these same women fail to recognize the power of the opposite effect...

Make a man feel like your hero, and you unleash his desire to commit to something more. He can't help it. He just starts to see you differently.

It's as if your relationship unlocks a version of himself he has always longed for. It feels right in a way he can't put into words. It unleashes his protective instincts, the noble aspects of his masculinity, and, most importantly, his deepest feelings of love and attraction.

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You already have needs and desires. Why not learn how to translate those desires into requests that trigger his hero instinct? Then relax into the warmth and passion he is only capable of showing to a woman who has triggered his hero instinct. A woman who knows exactly how to become the central character in his emotional world.

Ready to put this idea to use? Watch this video to show you a set of triggers you can use to get explosive results. 

After watching this video, many women are surprised to learn a man can actually feel more deeply in love when he feels more deeply needed. That seems strange, doesn't it? And yet that is the reality for men.

Many of us have a tendency to buy gifts of the sort we would like to receive ourselves. It can be like that with love. We try to love our partner the way we want to be loved.

So you make him feel special. Yet he seems unaffected by that. You speak your own native love language to him. Apparently, he speaks another.

But I'm here to tell you about one incredible, universal method you can use to grab his attention by triggering his hero instinct.

Click here now to discover an unfair advantage that works with all men, in every phase of life. Help him finally see you as the one.