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What makes a man’s heart race whenever you get near?


"It's Your EMOTIONS!"

Now what makes this strange is that you’ve probably been told by a man in you past something that’s totally opposite of that. 

“Quit being so emotional.” Now here’s the real question. 

Do you know what a man really means when he says this? If you’re absolutely sure you know the answer, then you don’t need to read any further. 

But if you don’t know the answer, or if you want to “confirm” that you do then keep reading.

How to use your emotions to captivate a man?
You'll also see why Romantic Tension creates Desire and....

And why being positive and upbeat all the time actually makes him ignore your needs.

See, men tell women that they want them to more laid back and easy going and not to complain. 

Yet that’s just what Anna did before she started working with relationship coach and the man she loved still left her, even though she gave him exactly what he told her he wanted.



Even if she wasn’t the prettiest, thinnest or anything that Cosmo magazine said she should be. I’ve been doing this for 20 years now and I’ve cracked the Bonding Code for thousands of women.

As a woman it is critical that you understand a man’s emotional needs more than he does or else he’ll pull you into what I call the “Giving Pit.” 

This is the unconscious and destructive urge within a man that is only happy when you’re doing something to please him. 

It is as dangerous as a Vampire that drains the very life out of a helpless young woman. 

And here’s the big trap. He will EVEN say this is what he wants. But don’t listen and don’t give in! You must never fall into this pit. You know, where you give into what he wants because you think it will make him happy. That it will keep him devoted to you. That it will make him love you.

But here’s what’s tragic about this, as logical as that sounds, giving too much to a man doesn’t make him love you, it will make him despise you. Even though that’s often exactly what a man tells you he wants!

Because if you let him keep pulling you down that path to the “Giving Pit” you’re actually increasing the chance that he might leave you.


You see this path is based on 3 common, but deadly myths below:

Myth 1
You Must Be Accommodating So that He’ll Think Your Easy Going and Fun…

But that doesn’t work because it actually trains him to think you’re willing to do whatever he wants. And what makes this so bad is that he’ll just assume all you care about is his needs, his happiness with nothing left for you.

Kind of like you’re his mother... doting on him... caring only about his needs... with your sole purpose focused on making sure he’s happy.

Myth 2
You’ve Been Told to Never Get Angry with a Man Because it’s Such a Turn Off….

But the truth is that never getting angry with a man actually makes him get bored with you. The reason is this: Men live by this motto –

“If you can’t handle me when I’m rude or disrespectful, then you’re too weak for me to ever trust you when I’m scared.”

Myth 3

And the Worst Thing You’ve Been Told: The More You Give to a Man the Deeper He’ll Love You.

Doing that he’ll take you for granted by: Only calling you when he’s in the mood.
Having his desire for you go hot and cold, for no apparent reason. Expecting you to be positive and upbeat…all the time.

The Campfire Effect
That effortless quality to glow and charm a man without even trying.
  • Without have to resort to weird games or skin tight clothes.
  • Without having to give into a man’s demands just to please him.
  • Without having to worry about saying the wrong thing.
This effect makes a man not only notice you, but feel an irresistible desire to be close to you.


Think about a campfire on a cool winter day. You can feel the warmth of the heat as your eyes are fixated on the dancing flames. It’s so comfortable that you could stay there, just looking into the fire for hours.

That’s what a man will feel when you learn to harness the power of “The Campfire Effect.”

3 quick tips you can use right now:

Tip #1: Create Tension
The secret to creating desire isn’t to make a man feel good, it’s to create tension. To make him so uncomfortable that he’ll only feel better when he’s with you.


Tip #2: Never Argue
Never argue with a man, but not for the reason you think. The problem with arguing is that it’s not POWERFUL enough. When you’re upset with him you want him to not only understand you, but FEEL why you’re upset.

Tip #3: Give Less Than You Receive
Always give back less to a man that you receive. For men the prize isn’t how much you give, it’s being able to make you happy. 

When you try and give as much as he does then you’re innocently acting like a man. If you’re not good at receiving, then you’ll actually teach a man to stop giving to you.

Whether you’re single or married, you’ll soon notice how men begin to look at you longingly and listen to your every word.

All without having to play those silly relationship games that make you feel like you’re in high school.

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