3 Things You Need to Learn About Men

From the book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" , I learnt that men and women have very different communication styles, emotional needs and personal values from each other.

So why am I telling you this? That's because if you're thinking of getting your ex boyfriend back to you, you have to learn to respect the differences between men and women and put some effort into figuring out how men think about romantic matters.

And here are 3 things you need to know about men before you start getting your ex boyfriend back.

Men Aren't Good At Handling Emotions
One common mistake that you can make when getting back your ex boyfriend is to turn into a drama queen and react on your raw emotions. 

You might be comfortable with that, but men just don't know how to handle emotions like women.

So if you are planning to cry, beg or even "attempt suicide" so that your ex boyfriend will feel guilty and come back to you, he'll only run far away from you instead.

Respect the fact that your ex boyfriend can't handle emotions like you can, so don't resort to emotional blackmail when you're getting your ex boyfriend back.

Most Men Need Lots of Personal Space
No matter who initiated the breakup, it's not going to be easy on both parties. So while you may have a hard time handling your emotions, know that your ex boyfriend isn't having it easy too.

Most men are known to need lots of personal space especially when their emotions aren't stable.

So chances are, your ex boyfriend wants his own space too to heal up emotionally before he even thinks about making up with you.

So the last thing you want to do is to spy on him constantly by calling and texting him every single moment of the day asking him how he is.

I know it's natural for you to want to spy on your ex boyfriend after the breakup because you're dying to know how he's getting on in life without you, but you have to restrain yourself because it is annoying and it doesn't help in getting your ex boyfriend back.

Learn to give your ex boyfriend his own personal space. Else, you're just decreasing your chances of making up with him.

Men Do Allow Close Friends to Influence Their Decisions
One of the next best things you can do in getting your ex boyfriend back is to pick one or two of your ex boyfriend's close friends to tell him that you're sorry about how things turned out, but that you still care about him and miss him.

Close friends can help by influencing your ex boyfriend's decision about making up with you, and they can be your best bet to convey your message when he isn't picking up your calls or replying your emails.

But what you don't want to do is regularly call every friend you know and tell them that you'll do anything to achieve your aim of getting your ex boyfriend back.

Because while they can help to put in a good word for you, you don't want them to affirm your ex boyfriend that you're indeed annoying and that the breakup was the right thing to do.

Don't do anything more than just asking his friends to convey your message that you still care. If your ex boyfriend wants to contact you, he will.

If you need some sound advice on getting your ex boyfriend back, skip the drama mamma advice in the women's magazines and look for a proven plan developed by someone who knows what they're talking about. 

Check out this resource by a relationship coach who has helped more many women to get back their ex back and discover the missing "Secret Ingredient" to committed love that never fades.