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How to Make Your Man Commit to You


Are you thinking of taking your relationship to the next step? There are ways on how to make your man commit to you.

As long as you are guiding your man in the right direction, he will begin to think of committing to you.

Understand his views on commitment
How well do you know about him in committing a relationship?

Perhaps he is not ready or he is worried, try to understand his views on commitment. 


This will help you to plan and take the pressure off before you ask him to move the relationship further to the next step.

Don't force him

Make it easy for your boyfriend to confide in you by listening to him. The more he tells you about his things, the more trust there will be in the relationship. 

Just be a good listener, but not an advisor. The time for advice should come later.

Give him enough freedom
Give your boyfriend at least a reasonable degree of freedom. If you try to change his life too fast, he will feel that his life is being disrupted and the next thing that he probably will do is to avoid you. 


Be sure that he still has time available to catch up his own friends. 

When you show yourself as someone who is understanding, he will feel that you are not only his best partner, but also his best friend.

Don't rely on him too much
A balance in the relationship is very important especially when you want to make your man commit to you. 

Don't rely on him too much because if he feels that you are always very dependent on him, it will show that you need him very much and that will push him to take advantage of you. 

If you overburden your man with many things, he may sense that he has to do a lot for you.

Just make things simple as it is. Sometimes if you can, pick up tabs on your own. He will find it appreciative.


Don't always be available for your man
If you want to make your man commit to you successfully, you have to know when you should not be available to him. 

Most of the time, when a woman is crazily in love with a man, she will give him everything including the time she has, just to make the man happy.

However, if you take some time to observe, you will realize people tend to treasure things more when it is hard to get. 

Likewise for a relationship, if he is not ready to commit, you should hang out more frequently with your girlfriends. This is to show that you have a life of your own even when you are together with him.

Once he feels that you have other options apart than him, he will start to think about progressing the relationship to the next level. 

There are things that you can do to Win His Heart and make him commit a serious and long lasting relationship with you.

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