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The One Simple Formula to Trigger a Man’s Desire

Do you find yourself home on a Friday or Saturday night? Jealous that the television actor has a date and you don't? 

Find out strategies on how to attract a guy that will get you off the couch, out the door and on your way to a new you with a new Mr. Right.

Firstly, know what you are looking for. Ask yourself, what kind of a guy you want to attract? 

Be realistic in your criteria. If you find that you always attract the wrong kind of guy, identify what that is and make the change.

If you want to attract a guy that has certain characteristics and attributes, stick to your guns. 

Remember if you want to attract that guy to your life forever, that's a long time, it's going to take time to attract the right guy. 

Sit down and write down the top 10 attributes that you desire in your mystery guy and read them often. This will open you up to the possibilities around you.

Next, look your best no matter where you go. Attracting a guy could happen at the laundry mat or the grocery store. 

Don't limit your sights to Friday or Saturday nights in a bar where it's dark and alcohol affects any sort of judgment. 

Go ahead and wear some nice perfume, style your hair, wear your favorite outfit to the grocery store. I have had friends that were able to attract a guy in a traffic jam or the drive through at Burger King.

You're making an impression wherever you go and remember the first one makes lasting one. 

A fragrance that someone will remember, looking good in a particular shirt or pants will leave the right guy remembering you. 
If you feel good inside and out it's going to show in how you act. Putting in a little extra effort to look good will also keep you feeling great, and in the mood to attract a guy or even a Mr. Right.

Be confident but not overbearing when attracting a guy. If you know yourself and know what you are looking for, guys will respect your honesty. 

This too will reflect on how you come across to others. If you're shy and have no self-confidence or beat around the bush when talking to someone, they will think you're not interested. 

Go on, get over your baggage! This is the new you we are talking to an you are ready to attract a guy.

You may have been burned before (um, who hasn't?), deal with it then leave it behind.

No guy is going to want a competition with an ex or your past relationships. See the mistakes as lessons to learn and grow to become a more confident you.

Also, don't be something your not when attracting that perfect guy. Wear your fake lashes, your push up bras, your foundation applied maliciously and your favorite heels but keep one thing in mind... 

This guy might just see you in the morning, so be prepared for a transformation that won't send him running out the door shrieking. 

Be proud of who you are, things to dress up with are fine but don't try to completely change, he is interested in you not your collagen treatments. Would you really want to be with someone that didn't appreciate the real you the next morning?
Be yourself, relax and know that there is a relationship waiting out there for you. Remember you know what you're looking and you will attract him to you. 

Never come across or enter a room with the intention of attracting a guy. You don't want to appear as desperate or over confident.

Be interested in the other person. Don't constantly talk about your dog and all the tricks he can do or about the run in your stockings. 

Ask questions of this handsome guy, find things you two have in common and run with that. That is another lasting memory the other person will keep then go back to your friends and brag about the person you just met.

There are many more ways to attract a guy, and I have only covered a few, but rest assured that the most timeless advice is always to know what you are looking for and to be yourself, while remaining open to the surprises that life offers at every step.

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