You want to be on his mind all the time without being his personal stalker. And you want his thoughts of you to make him feel good about you and to want to spend as much time with you as he can.
You want him to be like a drug addict with you as his drug of choice. But how do you make a guy think about you all the time?
1. Make your time together memorable
1. Make your time together memorable
When you are together find a way to make the time you spend together unforgettable.
Depending on your diverse interests and hobbies spend time together in activities that are daunting and give an adrenaline rush without of course being recklessly dangerous.
You need to be a woman of diverse and exciting interests so that he will associate you with excitement and adrenaline rushes.
So that as he thinks often of his exciting times then you become part of that ingrained memory and he will think about you as often as he thinks of the emotion filled adventures he has had.
But for this to work you must know your guy as 'one man's excitement is another man's boredom' and the activities you choose to engage in must be those that will be exciting and invigorating to him (and you).
2. Do random acts of love!
2. Do random acts of love!
Surprise him in a haphazard manner so that you give him unexpected surprises that make him feel appreciated.
You want him to have an incredulous smile on his face when he sees your chaotic love deeds or gifts of love. An active and out of the box imagination will be your best friend in this endeavor.
Again you need to know your man so that you know what it is that he considers as an act of love or a gift that he loves.
You can program-me your love deeds for the times when he least expects them or when he is tired and feeling unappreciated.
You want him to associate you with feeling better so that he thinks of you when he feels down as he remembers how you make him feel better and he also thinks of you when he is feeling good as he remembers how good you make him feel.
3. Talk and joke with him!
3. Talk and joke with him!
Be a real friend to him and think of him as a friend.
Do what a friend would do and actually listen to him and share his life and let him into your life. You want him to think about sharing various exciting and peculiar things during the day with you.
Set the mood and start sharing during the day when something peculiar or unusual happens during your day.
You want to be the one he thinks of when anything out of the ordinary happens. If you can get to that level then he will think of you on-and-of throughout his day.
For a guy to think about you all the time then his emotional attachment to you must be high.
For a guy to think about you all the time then his emotional attachment to you must be high.
If you do these 3 things then that is what will happen and you will become an essential part of his life.
But make sure that your clearly communicate that what you want is love and not just friendship otherwise you might just be a friend as he seeks love elsewhere.
If however you just don't know if he really likes you then use these 3 Hidden Signs He TRULY Loves You to decide but if he just sees you as a friend then use these winning over a guy steps to help you move the relationship from friendship to love.
If however you just don't know if he really likes you then use these 3 Hidden Signs He TRULY Loves You to decide but if he just sees you as a friend then use these winning over a guy steps to help you move the relationship from friendship to love.
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