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How to Avoid a Break Up With Your Boyfriend - Beware of These 2 Warning Signs


You don't want to imagine your boyfriend breaking up with you, but you're afraid that that very thing is going to happen. 

Needless to say you'd like to avoid that scenario. You know what I mean - the loneliness and sense of loss that comes with a break up can really hurt a lot.

So you're searching for tips on how to avoid a break up.

The best tip I can give you is to know the warning signs of an impending break up so you can recognize when it's heading your way and do something to avoid it. 

Here are the 2 most serious warning signs. How to avoid a break up means knowing the clues.



1) He Doesn't Touch You Anymore
This doesn't just mean sex. As a relationship progresses, it's natural for there to be less sex.

What I mean by lack of touch in this instance is that he never makes casual contact with you like he used to.

I'll bet he used to walk up behind you and rub your shoulders, or something similar just to show his affection.

He may have also stopped letting you hold his hand.

How to avoid a break up with your boyfriend means that you need to know whether to interpret this as a warning sign. 

By itself this might not be an ominous sign, but if it's accompanied by a lot of other changes in behavior toward you, such as coldness in general, you need to start looking for ways to head off the break up that's probably coming.


2) Catching Him in Lies 
This is a very good sign that he either doesn't trust you or is just plain getting tired of you.

He might be trying to come up with the answers to your questions that will save him having to talk to you any more than necessary. 

Do I need to tell you that that's a really bad place to be in a relationship?

Recognizing that little harmless lies are potentially very important indications about the health of your relation is absolutely how to avoid a break up.

If you pay attention to details like these you'll be able to decide whether the nagging feeling you have is just a little bit of paranoia or if you're really heading toward a break up with your boyfriend.

If it turns out that he really is thinking about breaking up with you there is still a lot you can do to change things - even if it seems like it's too late!

How to Avoid a Break Up?
It seems nearly impossible, doesn't it? I'm not going to kid you, it's not an easy thing to do.

Ever. But if you will promise to put in the effort required, there is a road map that I can show you that can lead you to the peace of mind you're seeking. 

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