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My Ex Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me! What Should I Do?



Since the breakup, your life has turned upside down, hasn't it?

You are more likely dealing with the sadness, the loneliness and the fearful expectation that results of not knowing what the future hides for you. 

You still hold feelings for your ex, and at times you wish he were there to share the joy of the moment.

When these thoughts grow stronger, they push you to call your ex or text him; however, you soon regret it when you get no answer.

When your ex ignores your text messages, you probably get that sinking feeling in your stomach.

Your ex-boyfriend's reactions cause a wide range of emotions to run through your heart. The truth is dealing with a man who ignores your messages is a difficult situation to handle.



However, if you learn how to respond to your ex's refusal to answer your texts, you can come back a winner from this situation easier than you ever thought possible.

When you consistently text your ex without getting any response, you are, in fact, lowering your self- worth. 

You are building your happiness upon reactions from a person who does not have the decency to acknowledge you. 

There is nothing more painful than being in love with someone who repeatedly ignores you. You have reached a stage where the relationship is no longer mutually fulfilling.

Your ex-boyfriend has come to the point where he does not even care about your feelings. 


That is why the best decision to make is to step back, and stop acting in the same way until you become completely sure of what you are doing before you call or send in another text message to your ex.

It is really, important and beneficial to your emotions at this moment, to stop this vicious cycle you have created for yourself. 

You write him a message from the bottom of your heart; you then send it and wait impatiently for a response, unfortunately you hear no answer to your calls.

To console yourself, you swear it will be the last time you do it; yet you repeat it again. This repetitive unhealthy cycle makes the painful emotions sink deep in your brain, which in turn will make your daily life lack the peace of mind you crave.

Though, it is understandable why you have acted in such a way, you have to stop this behavior if you want your chance to get him back become stronger. 

You need to convey a clear message to your ex-boyfriend that you can build your own happiness without him being in your life. 



You need to show him that you are no longer that weak, scary and lonely girl whose entirely life depends on her ex's mood.

To remedy for the void the breakup has created in your life, you can pick up on an old hobby you haven't practiced for a long time, and get involved in it once again.

You may call some old friends you haven't seen for a while, and have a talk with them over a coffee. 

You have the choice over many possibilities to fill in the time, and in the meanwhile let those hurtful feelings get out of your mind.

All it takes is a bit of courage and willingness to beat the temptations of calling or texting your ex. 

If you can resist for a few weeks, you will turn the situation to your advantage.

When your ex sees that you are no longer interested in him, he cannot help but wants to check on you to see what is keeping you busy.

The steps you perform after a breakup matter a lot in your life. You will either foster your chance to reunite with your boyfriend once again or lose him for good. 

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