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How to Let a Guy Feel You Love Him


You know in the deepest recess of your heart that you love him and you may have confessed your love for one another but you want to make him feel that you love him. 

So what should you do for a guy so that he feels you love him?

1. Value the man that he is
Compliment him for the things that you love about him often.

Maybe it's the way he smiles or his height or sense of the ridiculous or his sense of style. 

He will derive great pleasure from the fact that you have not only noticed how well put together he is but you also like the man exactly as he is.

2. Appreciate what he does
Notice the things he does for you that you really enjoy or that he does well and tell him how you really appreciate that specific thing or attribute. 

You definitely don't want to lie as he will know that you are lying and that will detract and not add to your love.

Learn to be grateful for him and look out for those things that he does for you because of his love for you. 

Maybe he picks you up after work or takes you shopping even though he hates shopping. 


Don't just say 'thank you' but let him know that you feel really good or happy or cared for when he picks you up from work or takes you shopping. 

Pay attention to him and notice when he goes out of his way for you and let him know that you appreciate what he did in specific terms.

3. Touch him
He needs to know that you find him attractive. 

So be deliberate and touch him lightly whenever you get into a room where he is whether there are other people or not. 

Your touch should convey the fact that you really like him.


4. Listen to him
When he talks to you make the effort to actually listen. 

Don't finish his sentences for him or listen with the objective of giving him your point of view. 

Listen actively while looking at his non verbal communication for verification of what his words and tone of voice are communicating to you. 

And keep his secrets; if he confides in you take his affairs seriously and keep it to yourself.


5. Spend time with him
Make every effort to spend time with him and help him or just sit with him or enjoy what he is doing. 

But be careful not to crowd him. Your aim is to chit chat with him and to connect with him under different conditions.

To let a guy know that you love him involves you doing some things as an expression of the love that you feel for him. 

I think they say that love is about the things you do and not so much the things you say. So do the deeds and your guy will feel you love him!

If you just do not know what your partner values and wants from you then I strongly recommend this key get-to-know each other.

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