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What Men Want - Five Keys to Understanding Male Psychology


Have you had difficulty determining what men want?

Would you love to get inside their heads, and find out what they are thinking when they're looking at you? 

Would you like to learn what men want, once and for all?

The truth is, most men want similar things to what women want. 

At heart, men are basic human beings. They have feelings, thoughts and emotions just like we do - granted, they are on a little of a different scale - but basically, they're humans who need love and affection.

Men put on a tough act. But when you crack through that rugged exterior, it's easy to see what men want.

Men Want to Be Loved
Everyone needs love - it is a basic human need that no one can thrive without.

You might have heard about the experimental psychology that took place with baby monkeys, who didn't have a mother. 

They craved love, and would hug their blankets, their handlers, or each other.

If they didn't have any love, they quickly became sad and overwhelmed. 

What men want is love - even if they pretend as though it's not important.

Men try to protect themselves by putting up a tough, rough and tumble front.

This is partly because society often tells little boys that emotions are for girls, and many men are uncomfortable with their emotions.

Once they feel comfortable with you, you'll find loving them is easy.

Men Want to Be Appreciated
Many men work very hard to make a life for themselves and their families. 

They don't need a lot - but they do want to be acknowledged and appreciated for the efforts that they make.

If you've got a man in your life, be sure you tell him how much you appreciate all he does for you - whether he stays home with the kids while you go to work, or if he works constantly. 

Your appreciation will mean a lot.

Men Want to Be Pampered
On some level, what men want is a little pampering and attention. 

So give him a back rub and give him plenty of kisses and hugs while you're at it. Treat him like a king every now and again. 


Your efforts are sure to be rewarded.

Men Want to Be Intimate
Men need sex. It's hard wired into their brains - that basic sex drive that they're so famous for.

If you want to make a guy happy, be there for him in the bedroom. Be his world. 

Play lots of games between the sheets, and make sure you keep him happy. 

If you don't do it, you can bet he will find someone else who will be pleased to take him out for a romp.

Men Want to Have Fun
Most people want to have fun in their lives, and that includes men.

What men want is the opportunity to relax and enjoy themselves on a regular basis, and they usually want to include you in the fun.

Be sure you let your guy off the hook now and then though - send him off with his buddies to watch a ball game or have a few beers. 


When it's time for the two of you to spend time together, make it as much fun as possible. You're sure to enjoy each other's company and enjoy your relationship even more.

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