Article from  dating coach  James Bauer [1] You pick up your phone and see a text from a guy you really liked who ghosted you last year. Is it an apology? Nope. Is it an explanation? Nope. It’s a “hey” with a string of friendly emojis. What’s that supposed to mean? You pick up your phone and see a text from a guy you went out with last week. He didn’t seem all that interested, so you wrote it off as a loss. Except now he’s texting you, “Wanna netflix and chill?” Did you totally misread the situation? Texting is so  confusing. It’s one of the things my clients tell me they struggle with the most. What I tell them is that there’s a reason they’re struggling. Texting wasn’t designed for having conversations. Here’s Why You’re Struggling You’ve probably heard it said that over 90% of communication is nonverbal. This claim comes from body language researcher Albert Mehrabian, who found that we understand a person’s meaning through interpreting: Their nonverbal cues (55%), Thei...

When men are dating, they have secret questions just like the ones you ask yourself.  They may not be exactly the same questions but they definitely represent their opinions and views.  The secret question men ask before they commit is the "if" question while women usually ask the "where" question. A man is usually in deep thought to decide if he will start a serious relationship with you or if you are the best person who can be with him for the rest of his life.  He decides whether or not he can see himself tied and starting a family with you even if there has been months of physical involvement. Women on the other hand would like to know where the relationship will end up. Usually, you will ask yourself when he will commit himself to you after what you have been through.  You sometimes wonder when is the time that he is going to make up his mind and when he will finally propose or ask you for marriage.  You should therefore know the secret question men ask be...

You've met. You get along. You're interested.  He's interested. So far we're on a roll.  Congrats! Now he's asking you for a date. You accept. How to keep him coming back for more dates?  Let's look at your first date with him before discussing more dates. Don't get ahead of yourself. Be a good and considerate first date.  How? When he opens the door for you to get in on the passenger side, closes the door and walks around to the driver's side, lean over and make sure the car lock is up.  When you get to the restaurant, tell him, as you are walking in, that you know you're going to have a good time with him tonight. You've always wanted to eat at this establishment. Yes, of course you can't say this if you're dining at Burger King or another fast food place. If it's not fast food, even if it is a chain place, compliment him on his choice.  The secret to a man's happiness is through his stomach. He's going to take you to an eat...