Secrets About Men

You've met. You get along. You're interested. 

He's interested. So far we're on a roll. 

Congrats! Now he's asking you for a date. You accept. How to keep him coming back for more dates? 

Let's look at your first date with him before discussing more dates. Don't get ahead of yourself.

Be a good and considerate first date. 

How? When he opens the door for you to get in on the passenger side, closes the door and walks around to the driver's side, lean over and make sure the car lock is up. 

When you get to the restaurant, tell him, as you are walking in, that you know you're going to have a good time with him tonight. You've always wanted to eat at this establishment.

Yes, of course you can't say this if you're dining at Burger King or another fast food place. If it's not fast food, even if it is a chain place, compliment him on his choice. 

The secret to a man's happiness is through his stomach. He's going to take you to an eatery that he likes. 

You, if you want more dates, are going to like what he likes. At least in the beginning. There's time enough ahead to gentle lead him to food you prefer eating.

Cover his coffee cup if he steps away to take a call, make a call or go to the men's room. 

Men like to be pampered. After all, that's what their mothers did for them. They pampered them. Now you pamper him.

Men like to be thought of as considerate creatures. Make sure you compliment him on how he stood before you sat in your chair or took your coat to be hung up.

If he went out of his way to drop you off before parking the car because the weather was nasty, don't forget to thank him. A little kiss on the cheek would be a nice gesture to make too.

Men like to be listened to. Really listened to. They appreciate thoughtful questions and responses. 

A man believes that he is important when a woman can't take her eyes off of him. Forget about that man coming in through the front door! And don't flirt with the waiter. 

He, as your date, is the only one for you. Make him believe this.

Men also like their women to dress beautiful and smell good. 

So, make sure you pick out an outfit that you think he would enjoy seeing on you. And take your time getting dressed. 

Soak in a bubbly tub of sweet smelling water. Dust yourself with baby powder. Spray your body with a fine body mist of some edible flavor. Dab on an exotic perfume. 

Yes, you are his prize for the night. Let him flaunt you to everyone.

Tell me some secrets about men. I just did. There are more secrets to learn like how to keep a man, how to make a man want you, how to make a man love you and, most importantly, how to get him to propose.