Many relationships break despite lot of love between the partners. It seems that love is not enough to sustain a relationship.  To keep a relationship on a high much more than love is needed. Talking about love let me ask you - do you feel loved?  Your partner may have lot of love for you, but do you feel it? Do you experience it? How about your partner? Does he feel your love? Do you show with many gestures that you love your partner?  Let us go through a quick questionnaire.  How many times in a day, do you say i love you?  How many times in a month you go for dinner together? How many times during a week you talk with each other without any disturbance? How many times you go for a walk without any reason?  How many gifts do you buy for your partner in a month? How many roses did you give on last Valentines Day? Do you go for work no your partners birthday or enjoy the whole day with them? These are few questions I have raised to find out whether you express your love. It is good t

When you haven’t met anyone you’ve liked in a LONG time… You can get a bit antsy. Is the problem YOU? Are your standards too high? Are you not giving these guys a chance? There’s so much pressure to get it right. To pick the right person. To not overlook a diamond in the rough. To not waste your time on duds. But here’s what I know: No matter what your standards are, they could ALWAYS be higher. Don’t waste your time looking for a man who’s wealthy, erudite, cosmopolitan, and a dead ringer for George Clooney, though. Instead, look for a man with  one key trait  that will determine a lot more about the quality of your relationship: Emotional intelligence. Women tend to be the emotional leaders in relationships. They’re the ones thinking of ways to connect and get closer. They’re the ones reading books and newsletters like this one. They’re always learning how to love better. Men? Well, you’ll spot the occasional man reading a relationship book. (Probably bought for him by the woman in

There’s nothing worse than going on a date with someone who won’t let you in. All they want to talk about are superficial things, like what do you do in your spare time or what’s the best movie of the summer or how many siblings you have. It’s like a game of 20 questions, where the goal is to figure you out in 20 questions or less. But the goal of a date is NOT to talk until you drop! The goal is to find out how you FEEL about each other. And that doesn’t happen in your head; it happens in your heart. So how can you create a heart connection with a man? You get vulnerable. And this cool trick will help you master it. Your Circle of Trust If you have ever opened up to a man only to get slammed back down, you know that vulnerability is a double-edged sword. Yes, you want to open up and let him in, but you want to test the waters first. You don’t want to be the one who goes first and makes a fool of yourself. That’s why I recommend using your  circle of trust . Your circle of trust is a w

Article from Amy Waterman[1] As women, we know 3 things: Men are natural hunters. Men want what they can’t have. Men only value what they’ve had to work for. The conclusion is obvious. You don’t want to be easy. You want to play hard to get. But won’t playing hard to get drive him away? And isn’t it kind of manipulative at the end of the day? Why pretend to be busy when you’re not? Won’t he find out you’ve been lying to him? To find out the answers, let’s look at the science of playing hard to get. You’ll discover HOW to play hard to get, WHO plays hard to get, and WHEN to play hard to get. How We Play Hard to Get There are 5 main ways we play hard to get in romantic relationships. We limit our availability. We’re busy all the time. We’re not easy to get hold of. We blow hot and cold. We act uninterested. We use these tactics for two reasons. Playing hard to get makes us a scarce resource. We don’t go out with just anyone. Done right, that scarcity drives up our value. We’re perceived

It can go downhill so fast. You’ve met someone you really like, you have a great time with him, and you appreciate the way he shows up on time and treats you like a queen. Then it starts. He shows up late. He says something rude to you and laughs it off. He blames you for something you didn’t do. At first you excuse him, because he’s been so wonderful. This is just a blip, you think. He’s having a bad day. This isn’t who he is. But he keeps on doing it. Now you’ve got to pretend that it doesn’t hurt, that you don’t care, that you’re bigger than that. This man, who you thought would make you feel cherished and adored, is now making you feel uncertain and insecure. What’s going on? And how can you stop it? Is It Your Fault? Your friends may have told you,  “You teach him how to treat you.” They tell you that you’re allowing his bad behavior. That you need to come down on him hard the first time he does it, so he knows he can’t get away with anything. But you know that if you respond hars

What’s the most painful thing you’ve felt because of a romantic relationship? When he didn’t feel the same way about you? When he didn’t do what you asked him to do? When he couldn’t love you the way you really wanted him to? Much of the pain in relationship is caused by  expectations . We want people to behave in a certain way… And they DON’T. Grown-ups aren’t like children. We can’t tell them what to do (though we try). Nevertheless, you need to be on the same page when you’re in a relationship with someone. It doesn’t work if he goes his way and you go yours. Different expectations are stressful for both of you. Men often complain that the women in their lives are always trying to change them. They don’t feel loved and accepted for who they are, warts and all. So what’s the answer? New York Times  bestselling author Michael Singer decided to try something unusual. He decided to give up. He’d stop trying to make life go his way. He’d accept whatever happened. He’d say yes to whateve

Have you ever noticed how the instant you meet someone, you automatically know if there’s potential or not? That’s the power of first impressions. The first impression someone has of you is remarkably enduring AND remarkably accurate. All it takes is a  tenth of a second  to sum someone up. In just 100 milliseconds, you have a good sense of whether a person is attractive, likable, trustworthy, or competent. And in 30 seconds, you know whether you’d want to sleep with them. It’s Not Just Your Body Now, here’s where we get it wrong. We get it wrong by thinking that  first impressions  are just about appearances. We think that he’s looking at our body and judging us by how we look. And if you’re like so many women, you don’t really like your body. That’s the last thing you want him to focus on. You want him to get to know your sparkling personality first, so he overlooks the imperfect parts of you. If you’re sick and tired of the pressure to look sexy, then I have good news for you. When