He may be the hot college hunk who attracted you with his confident grin during a game day, or simply the cute colleague who occasionally stares at you from the opposite cubicle.
Someone macho, cute, handsome or anything like that may really get your attention and admiration.
To make him understand how you feel and to receive at least a fraction of love from him require your initial contribution because right now it is simply a one-way street.
There are a few ways on how to make him love you.
1. Be positive
To do so, we must have the idea that in order to make him love you, we must not force or pressure him to do so.
Things like luring him to come to you or seducing him in any ways will only make him generate a short term interest on you-only that and nothing more.
In order to attract him properly, try sending him correct messages.
Showing positive approaches like caring and understanding will somehow gain his attention towards your friendliness.
2. Time
To ensure that you will receive a genuine and lasting love from him, give both of you as much time as possible.
2. Time
To ensure that you will receive a genuine and lasting love from him, give both of you as much time as possible.
Time is one of the important keys in a successful relationship. As you might have spent a lot of your time observing him from your side, give him his worth of timeframe to slowly observe you.
No man would like to genuinely commit himself to a woman whom he had just met shortly, especially those who suddenly appeared in his life.
No man would like to genuinely commit himself to a woman whom he had just met shortly, especially those who suddenly appeared in his life.
Give him time to get to know you, run his routine of 'checking you out', understanding you, and of course, let love naturally develop between the two of you.
Then, you are one step closer on how to make him love you.
3. Don't be pushy
After the period of time of letting him get to know you, you should have a good idea of whether he will be able to commit himself to you genuinely.
It is the time to stop holding back your feelings and letting him know that you love him.
Different from your initial 'positive messages', this is more like the 'confirming' process which involves giving yourself to him.
No, not giving in as in to allow him to own you, but to allow him to take the lead on the things that both of you do.
This will send him a clear message that you are willing to follow his lead, being taken care of by him, and most importantly telling him that you have fallen for him.
This will send him a clear message that you are willing to follow his lead, being taken care of by him, and most importantly telling him that you have fallen for him.
It is all up to him to decide whether to commit himself to you, now or later; or simply reject you (hopefully in a polite manner) with a good reason. Who knows?
He might have already developed the feelings towards you just like you did at first.
4. Be his friend
When it does not work out as you wish, give yourselves a chance to continue the friendship.
4. Be his friend
When it does not work out as you wish, give yourselves a chance to continue the friendship.
People ignore this usually, but the core to starting a relationship is usually from friendship.
Being friends involves a different way of interaction, be it love-oriented or not, you will still have a chance of developing a relationship with him by means of mutual understanding and caring from a friend's perspective.
Again, it is a win-win situation, giving you a chance to start all over again with that spark of hope, or having someone that you trust deeply as a best friend.
How to make him love you still lies to the willingness of the other party to accept your feelings for him.
How to make him love you still lies to the willingness of the other party to accept your feelings for him.
One should not worry much about being rejected because there is still a chance of being good friends and of course, there is always the "Mr. Right" waiting for you, somewhere, someday.
Have you ever known any women who seem to be "lucky in love" and where everything involving men seems to come easily and effortlessly to them?
Have you ever known any women who seem to be "lucky in love" and where everything involving men seems to come easily and effortlessly to them?
Let me tell you...It is not a magic. You don't need to be gorgeous or young either. And you don't have to be LUCKY too.
What you NEED to do is LEARN the secrets!
To discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
What you NEED to do is LEARN the secrets!
To discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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