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Signs Your Man Fears Relationship Commitment


There are several signs that a man fears a relationship commitment with a woman, even though he may love her very much. 

Some of them are obvious, while other signs are the result of a more serious condition, known as commitment phobic.

Commitments take time to nurture and grow, and if its only one sided it isn't going to grow much at all.

Bothersome facts
He always seems to be the one has ended the relationships, that the other ex's were all silly or stupid, and does not like public displays of affection. 

He is very uncomfortable and may even get angry if bring up topics like commitment or marriage. 

He postpones or forgets all together important dates or events. Its almost as if he doesn't want to be around you at all, but when you bring up the idea that maybe you are going to leave, he is beside himself with sadness. 

He vows to let down his guard but it very rarely happens.


Not all in the family
He will not call you his girlfriend or lover, simply his friend. 

He does not acknowledge you at all romantically in front of his friends, and will not discuss you with his family, even if you know them. 

Forget about introducing him to your family, because he's just not into it. In fact, he as a hard time making a commitment to anything, such as a pet or material objects. He has a great entitlement mentality.

Why is he like this?
Most men are hesitant to commitment because they fear they will lose a part of themselves and more importantly, their independence. 

He may have had a previous partner who was abusive or domineering to the point where felt overwhelmed and didn't know how to handle it, so avoidance is the best he can do. 

He may have lost a loved one at an early age, such as a parent or a sibling and vows never to let that pain in again.


Some men feel there is nothing wrong with how they feel and don't have any intention of changing their behaviors or how they feel about you.

Remember that you are not going to be able change him, just your reaction to it. You can not make a man commit to you if he incapable of doing so.

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