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How to Make Him Come to You


If you want to know how to get your ex partner back and make him come to you, there needs to be a strategy in place and an understanding of how a man's mind works. 

Often, you need to do the exact opposite of what you want to do to make him come to you and be the one chasing you.

The good news is that no matter what has happened or how bad the break up was, there are always ways to get your ex back and make him fall in love with you more than ever.

The first step is to make sure that you avoid all contact with him. This means no calling, no text messaging, Facebook stalking or being at places where you know you will see him. 

This is very important because he needs to feel the pain of no longer having you around. Also, it will make him think about you more and be curious as to what you are up to.


He needs time to miss you
By having no contact this will give him time to miss you and to realize just how important you were in his life. 

The only way for this to happen is to avoid him at all costs. Even if he is the one calling, you need to keep the conversation short and brief and make sure that he feels the distance. 

To make him come to you he needs to really feel that he has lost you. This will trigger a psychological reaction in him that will make him want you more than ever.

Get out as much as possible
This is not the time to be brooding around the house. It will only serve to make you think of him more and the loneliness may lead you to start calling him again. 

Get out of the house and do anything to keep yourself busy and distracted.



Stick with your girlfriends
There will definitely be moments of sadness and grief - that is all very natural. 

But you need to have close friends to share this pain with - not your ex. 

Stick with your close friends and never call him to let him know how bad you are feeling. 

To make him come to you he needs to feel that you have completely moved on and are a strong, independent woman. 

Men are highly attracted to women who can take care of themselves and deal with their emotions effectively. 

Stay around close friends that you trust and allow yourself to feel the grief and sadness that is a normal part of a breakup.

Stay active - Get the endorphins going with exercise

There is no better way to improve how you feel than by getting the endorphins going with exercise. It is also another great opportunity to distract yourself and to look great at the same time.



Focus on yourself
This is the perfect time to throw yourself into your work and career. Ambition and success are very appealing, as well as being a great way to distract yourself during this time. 

Dedicate yourself to your work, stay busy, make networking connections and you will notice the huge improvements to your self esteem and confidence.

Be unavailable to him
Even if he is the one trying to make contact, you need to remain aloof and unavailable. 

The only way to make him come to you in a permanent way is by making him see that he really has lost you and to prove how much he wants to be with you. 

If you make it too easy, you will be in the same situation in a few months. Giving a man too much attention will only boost his ego and make him reluctant to come back to you. 

Make sure that you are unavailable and make him come to you in a way that he is desperate to have you back.

Find out how to put the perfect psychological strategy in place to make him come to you.

Want to get your ex crawling, begging and pleading for you to come back? Interested to know more? Need help with a killer strategy to make him want you back? 

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