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How To Make Him Want You More and Make Him Chase You


You met someone and somehow it went well initially, you find some common interests, but he seems not so into you yet... or he has really expressed interest but you are not quite satisfied and you want to know how to make him want you more and make him chase you. 

Read on for tips on what will help you do this:

(1) Have self-confidence - men like to chase a woman of value, who knows how to carry herself, and you can do this by making the most of yourself in many aspects.
  • physically by bringing out the best in you
  • dressing feminine but confident
  • SMILE
  • having confidence by being good at something, whether about work, or sports, or hobby 
  • being confident and preoccupied with something you are good at makes a man feel you can hold out on your own and thus not too clingy

(2) Be a smart and an interesting company - it pays to read, makes a woman an interesting conversationalist, and men are impressed by women who can take him on a smart talk.

(3) Know details about him, his interests, and read about them - it is human nature that makes a person want to talk about himself, his interests and preferences.

If he is a golf aficionado, while you need not actually play golf yourself but to be able to talk about it is a plus.

(4) Have a certain air of mystery and do not be totally open about everything about you - men want to chase a woman who carries a certain air of mystery. 

If you have already gone overboard with being too available for him, yes you can undo this by keeping out of touch all of a sudden, being less accessible.

(5) Be a genuine person - gentle, caring, sweet, trustworthy, who knows how to listen - when a man is comfortable with you and he knows you care and can be trusted, it will make him want you more because he feels good and light with your company.


(6) Your sense of humor - having the ability to make a man laugh is a good seduction secret to make him want you more, and it makes good sense - laughing releases feel-good hormones and makes a person comfortable and at ease with you. 

It is not merely memorizing jokes and tending to try too hard, but having the ability to naturally blend funny incidents and lines into a conversation.

If you have trouble with this, get into the habit of watching comedy shows or movies or recall funny events in your life. 

Be around people who have this sense of humor. Learn to have fun and make light of a situation.

Keep in mind these tips - have that winning personality and surely you have the secrets on how to make him want you more and make him chase you.

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