Article from  dating coach  James Bauer [1] "More and more often, I’ve been hearing from women that relationships are dead. Men don’t want to get to know you anymore. They just want to jump into bed. Even though these women state clearly in their profiles that they want a relationship, the men they meet have something else on their minds. Instead of conversation, these women get sexual innuendo. Instead of dates, they get asked to come over. Instead of flirting, they get unwanted pics. “Guys don’t even want to take you anywhere,” one woman told me. “It’s all,  bring over a bottle of wine and let’s Netflix and chill.  Which is code for wanting to get lucky.” This change has been driven by dating apps, which create the perception of abundance. For singles looking for something casual, ordering a partner online feels as easy as ordering a pizza. But for singles looking for love, the digital dating odds aren’t much better than finding a needle in a haystack. Why is it so hard to find

Article from Amy Waterman[1] Everybody knows what love feels like. Surely! I used to think that… Until I went on my own journey of discovering that what I  thought  was love wasn’t  really  love at all. Like most people, I’d picked up my views on love from songs I’d heard on the radio, shows I’d seen on TV, married couples I knew, my family and cultural beliefs.   It wasn’t until I did a deep dive into the research on love—what love looks like to psychologists, therapists, social workers, anthropologists—that I realized that there was a   huge   difference between what love was   supposed   to feel like… And what it felt like for me. It turned out that the “love” I’d gotten for most of my life didn’t seem to fit what these researchers were talking about. What they were talking about seemed too good to be true. I’d never seen anything like that. And I’m going to take a guess that some of you  might  be in the same shoes. This Isn’t Love I often hear from women who are in really difficul

Do you know that about 97% of women are total failures with men?  There are only a tiny percentage of women who understand the secrets behind how to attract men and apply it in their life.  The remaining 97% end up being subjected to the neglect of their boyfriends and husbands all the time.  Some of these women lead lonely lives all the way through and end up settling for just less than average type of guy eventually. Why's that?  Well... it's because the only thing that governs how a man reacts to you is ATTRACTION.  If a man is attracted to you, he will be more loving, attentive, caring and the best man he can be for you and your family.  But when he isn't attracted to you, he won't show any signs of affection or interest towards you. The 97% of women on this planet who struggle with men don't know how to create attraction in a man. They try to create attraction in a man by chasing him like crazy, nagging him to be attracted to them and various things that actual

Have you had difficulty determining what men want? Would you love to get inside their heads, and find out what they are thinking when they're looking at you?  Would you like to learn what men want, once and for all? The truth is, most men want similar things to what women want.  At heart, men are basic human beings. They have feelings, thoughts and emotions just like we do - granted, they are on a little of a different scale - but basically, they're humans who need love and affection. Men put on a tough act. But when you crack through that rugged exterior, it's easy to see what men want. Men Want to Be Loved Everyone needs love - it is a basic human need that no one can thrive without. You might have heard about the experimental psychology that took place with baby monkeys, who didn't have a mother.  They craved love, and would hug their blankets, their handlers, or each other. If they didn't have any love, they quickly became sad and overwhelmed.  What men want is

Advise from  dating coach  James Bauer [1] “Oh, James. I really messed it up.” Olivia was sitting in my office with her head in her hands. When she and her boyfriend broke up last month, she thought she’d handled it well. She kept her feelings under control. They had a mature conversation and parted on amicable terms. But a week into her new life as a single woman, she started panicking. She began to think she’d made the biggest mistake of her life. What if he was The One? What if his flaws weren’t such a big deal after all? What if she never met anyone like him again? She had too much free time on her hands. Instead of spending it with her friends, she wrapped herself up in her softest blanket and curled up on the sofa to watch romantic movies and scroll on her phone. Every night, she pulled up his social media accounts. She read the comments he posted. She poured over the pictures he’d been tagged in, looking for evidence he’d met someone new. She tapped  like  on a picture he’d post

Advise from  dating coach  James Bauer [1] "Bethany pressed her lips tight to keep from crying. “I don’t understand why he lied to me, James. He could have just told me.” Everything she thought she knew about the man she loved and the life they shared had been thrown into question by a revelation that rocked her world. “I don’t know what is real and what isn’t anymore,” she said sadly. Lifting her eyes to mine, she asked a question I’ve heard so many times: “What if everything he ever told me was a lie?” If You’ve Been Lied to, You’re Not Alone Bethany isn’t my first client to come to me with a heart broken by a partner’s lies. The pain cuts deeper because of the humiliation. Were you the only one who didn’t know? Has he been laughing at you behind your back this whole time?  So when I explain that lying happens in most relationships… And in most cases it’s done to  preserve  the relationship rather than deceive… They don’t want to believe me. For them, it’s black or white. Either